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文章标题:madam mope and her doctor, her love, her god father发表日期:2006-06-10
作  者:月吟长安出处:原创浏览2502次,读者评论0条论坛回复0条
madam mope and her doctor, her love, her god father
文/月吟长安
2006年06月10日,星期六

madam mope and her doctor, her love, her god fat..

[心情随笔] 日期:2005-09-25 Sunday   浏览:1374 次
   
        他对我的爱比要求多,他对自己有主见。一个有自信、接受个人主义价值观的男人,也许有各种各样的差异,但他会培养、保护女性的自信和独立。

        逍遥说"因为他的自我价值不需要用女人的惶恐来垫衬。因为他知道,一个自由、独立、爱着的灵魂本身是多么珍贵,去摧残她、扭曲她是多么邪恶。他会懂得女性精神上天生坚强独立的道理,而且会努力让女性明白这一点。这一点很多男子害怕,不习惯。"   我不会害怕对他表达,当我和他分享自己的感受与思想时,能觉得安全。在他面前,我确信不会因为表达内心深层想法而遭受到嘲笑或伤害。这就叫安全感。

    其实现实并没有很多人,男性女性所想象的那么残酷可怕。我一直以来以为自己悟性尚佳,有根深蒂固的自信。"这不是说对自己的未来不担忧,而是自我形象不以旁人的评价为基础, 不以男人为中心,懂得自己、把自信建立在自身基础上,优秀的男子也许值得去欣赏疼爱,为之喜怒哀乐,与之争吵折衷,付出心血年华,但任何男子,既使是你先生却也不值得牺牲自己的个性、独立,经济独立能力也并非定要优先于它。"我从不担心别人要不要,我要的是自己!
     He make me feel so safe just like a solid mountain behind me in peace.他能与我沟通,他懂得倾听,知道什么时候该说话,他懂得如何表达自己。

my speech in the Sunday class of grace church nearby
Subject: madam mope Mar. 16
     I became  a full time housewife __ a dependant a few years since when I was gone abroad . There are some moments I feel happy, happy in my way. It's be under the necessity for me to Keep myself at a distance and to be dispensed from joining  any group. Habitually I slip in my own inside world in the day time frequently.
     But  I regret to remember I  never was  a greable, sociable, attractive schoolgirl at my teenage age, especially in my family. My mama always wishes I could acquire a sort of  lighter, more sprightly, pleasant manner. But she is never satisfied to see my progress in the earnest by her own observation. Later she cannot be aware why I was not contented about my accountant carrear with not bad pay. As one of the 1st generation independent professional women since new China, for the time, with diffidence she is not accustomed  to my life style of eating meals and wearing clothes only at my hubby's expense.

After listening my talk,  you said to me:
I hope you always think positively.  Many people go to work not because they have to make money but because they can not stay at home and do something enjoyable.  You can stay at home and doing things you dream to do such as writting articles.  You can only work as my house wife if you want for certain hours each day and you spend majority of your time do what you enjoy to do.  

Why  lose your joy ?The cause?
You asked with caution.
I always find many people who do not understand my shape criticize me and try to get me to conform to what they think me should be doing,
but their opinions are usually arbitrary , blind, shallow, and  represent a big bias, prejudice. Their voices around us are noisy and not truth.
"Ok, 分心的致命陷阱___"
TEMPTATION 1.      Others Compare you with others and all this comparing, grading and competing make you hurry
You must still to be considerate and  look your best, keep your heart calm,  agreeable, speak in a well-modulated voice.
                  2.                CONFORMing your track, footprint to the Expectations of others        make you indecision. Please you mom, middle-class mainstream society value, Chinese traditional woman life style.
Both are deadly traps that distract you, your life voyage from action in the right direction God and yourself intended ,enjoyed.

Here, I give you a  Paul's sample:
While have to deal with critics who misunderstand and malign your individual life choice and manner
保罗的反应总是一样:避免比较,be courteous不作夸大言语,拒绝无谓的争辩等事所分心。保罗明白自己不是要取悦所有的人。是他被神大大使用的原因之一.
your response should be as the same as Paul did and forever.

Ignore them. ____  "Be sure to do what I should", to listen and remember what you should hear.
                            We will not try to change anyone's mind,   but  improve  yourself.

So, now JUST FOCUS ON FINISHING YOURSELVE'S RACE
     your boundaries   ,  specialty, major of life, the particular race lane to run in that has set before you
but to focus only on the particular area, field, sphere, project, program, ministry ,aim, purpose, dream, design,  subject,  research...
                            which has been planned to assign to you   AND   you've been shaped for.

Then he asked me followed him to say aloud for 3 times:
I will save myself from two enemies------------hurry and indecision resulted by anyone else's estimate or even earthly society expectation.
I will keep to my own program. I might not follow it exactly, but I will have it just like before. I will believe in myself.

And asked me recite aloud it  once again in every morning and in the night in my bed.
He gave me a audio tape. He put his voice  on it. So I put his voice into my pocket with me. Then wherever I am, he will be always together with me, talk with me , take care of me, help me and love me.

2006-5-27 11:23 PM #1
           
 
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he makes.     "It's be", grammatically wrong.      agreeable.             "cannot be aware"  should be  "cannot understand".         career.
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